Spiritual visiting hours
Is spirit bothering you while you’re trying to sleep? Do you feel watched while you’re home alone? Do you have boundaries and visiting hours set for when spirit can visit you?
What are spiritual visiting hours? There is a time and place for spiritual connections, and it’s not in the middle of the night while you’re trying to get your beauty rest, amiright? This website is the go-to source for all things self-love, self-evolution, and a positive mindset. Equally, this site is an informative treasure box for all things intuitive development, psychic awareness, and mediumship, which is what today’s article is alllllll about! Today we are focusing on setting specific hours for spirit to visit!
Before I learned how to manage my clairvoyance and other intuitive gifts, I was always on edge. I had nightmares almost 7 days a week, felt like I was continually being watched, and I was woken up quite often. When you’re a psychic kid or medium (even if you don’t know it), these types of things become typical in your life.
I needed to have spiritual boundaries set, but I didn’t know it at the time!
I first learned about setting spiritual visitation hours from colleague and friend Amanda Linette Meder. She is a reliable medium who’s story sounded much like my own. With her help, I learned not only to manage this gift but also to love it. When I embraced who I was on a soul level, I was led to where I am now – living my best and most fulfilled life.
With research and mentorship, I learned that I was in control when it came to spirit and not the other way around. It was my job to set my own boundaries for what I was and was not willing to accept from people around me and it was also my job to do the same with spirit!
Learning to set spiritual boundaries and spiritual visitation hours was the best thing I have ever done for myself.
Right before I decided to go down the spiritual rabbit hole and discover who I was, I had several nightmares of a deceased friend. He was showing up at night being mean and nasty, which was not his nature at all. To add to it at night, I felt like there was someone standing at the foot of my bed and I had had enough. For years I tried to shut these gifts down and ignore them, but the time came where it was undeniable, and I had to do something.
I will always remember the day I looked up at the ceiling after I decided to get happy and take charge of my life. In one moment without thinking, I looked up and said “I don’t know who you are or what you want, but I’m going to do this thing. The first time you scare me, though, I’m done, so this has got to stop.”
At that moment, I had no clue that I had done the very thing I needed to do all along. I stood in my power and basically set my boundaries. Now I know to be more direct by saying I am only willing to work with those in the light and those that are here for my best and highest good. (Workshop for setting boundaries here!)
I also know to set strict hours for spirit visitations!
Once I said that inclination I was led…almost dragged down a path of spiritual and self-development. My awakening came fast, and it came loud! During that time, I found Amanda, the secret, and to be honest my life has been forever changed. I went from miserable, scared, and sad to blissful and abundant (yes, you read that right). I am now living a dream life that I adore. All of this happened because I decided to step into who I was and devote time to working with my spirit team!
Why you need to set visiting hours for spirit!
You need to set strong boundaries and “visiting hours” with spirit so that they don’t think your energy is a free for all!
As intuitives, we are like bright spotlights and all souls living and otherwise can feel this light and can be attracted to it. The thing is we don’t need, nor do we want any and everyone in our energetic bubble.
At night while dreaming or in-between awake and asleep, we are most receptive to spiritual connections. Our guards are down and our mind is at ease; this allows us to be an open channel, which is in part why spirit loves to visit at night! As humans, however, we need our sleep!
There is also a time and a place for these connections. The grocery store or a kid’s birthday party, for example, aren’t great times for these connections. We get to tell spirit when is the right time for connecting like when we are meditating, journaling, or taking a walk!
This is why we need not only boundaries but also visitation hours for spirit so that they don’t come any time day or night!
How to set visiting hours and boundaries for spirit.
To set your spiritual business hours, simply state your conditions out loud or write them down and keep them in a drawer next to your bed! Here is what my visitation hours for spirit look like!
My personal spirit team may visit me at any time, with our most active connections being between 6:00 AM and 10:00 PM. Members of my spirit team know not to wake me unless it is an emergency. I also always invite my spirit team with me wherever I go because I love to be lead and to use my intuition as I flow about my day!
When it comes to anyone else’s spirits, my hours and boundaries very look different!
My spiritual business hours are from 7:00 AM to 7:30 PM (unless I am hosting a development circle or something of the like)
Spirits that are connected to my clients are to stay in my office. Absolutely no spirit besides those on my or my family’s team is allowed past the threshold of the bedroom hallway. (This has indeed come in handy more than once!)
I am also careful to use specific empath and intuitive protection techniques when going to the store, driving, or at social gatherings. It doesn’t block out all messages, but it only allows through what is of dire importance.